Hoo-hoo Waxing 101 with Kara
Feb 24th, 2011
This is the year I am FINALLY going to bite the bullet and go for the wax. I swear. The idea of someone taking hot wax to my nether regions never appealed to me but what’s even less appealing is the fluctuation of my bikini area from 70′s style bush to all of those angry and irritated red bumps. At age 33 it’s time to get that area under control. Because it still freaks me out a bit I turned to The Body Bar Owner, Esthetician and expert Vajazzaler, Kara Mize, to walk me through the process. Here’s what she had to say…
I’m not gonna lie. Waxing your lady bits is not a pleasurable experience. It is however worth it. It is one of the best things since sliced bread. I am not a glutton for punishment, but I will take 20 to 30 minutes once a month to get my lady bits waxed. I will deal with the pain because I no longer have to shave, which totally sucks; and let’s be honest, my man loves it and it is so much more convenient to wax then it is to shave. I wax women’s cookies for a living and I’m good at it. I know what it feels like, and I give the same result to my clients that I would give to myself. The best. I know how scary it can be for first time waxers and the anxiety that comes along with every wax and I have some important tips to share with you when on the hunt for a place to get a good wax.
Tip #1
If you’ve never waxed your hoo-hoo before, the best thing to do is to ask your girlfriends where they go or if they know of anywhere good. If you’re too embarassed to ask, then start googling. The places that are good usually have great reviews. You do not want to go just anywhere for a bikini wax. That is not an area that you want just anyone seeing let alone waxing. Trust me…been there done that and I’ve had my share of bad experiences. If you have any questions at all about the waxing do not hesitate to ask the spa/salon you are calling to make your appointment. They should put your mind at ease!
Tip #2
One of the key factors for first time waxers is letting the hair grow. Many women think that 4 days of hairgrowth after shaving is so long. No way ma’am. The hair length has to be at least a 1/4 of an inch or 2-3 weeks of growth. The longer the better. If it’s too short, it can’t be waxed because there’s no way that the wax will grab the hair. Youideally want a nice smooth wax with minimal tweezing, that’s why the longer the
hair the better. Makes for a nice, smooth, lasting wax and a great result.
Tip #3
To prepare for the day of your bikini wax, take some ibuprofen 30 minutes before your wax. I also offer to my clients a glass of red or white wine or sangria to help calm their nerves. A little bit of alcohol goes a long way when it comes to bikini waxing. I also offer a service called the “No Scream Cream” add-on. You can come in 30 minutes before your scheduled appointment, apply a topical anesthetic known as the “No Scream Cream”; Enjoy a glass of wine and catch up on the latest gossip in People Magazine for 30 minutes while the anesthetic takes effect. Some of my clients swear by this cream and refuse to wax without it.
Tip #4
Depending on what type of wax you desire, brazilian, completely bare, almost there brazilian (if you’re confused by the different wax services don’t hesitate to ask the spa to describe the difference between them) …the treatment should never last longer than 30 to 40 minutes, especially for your first time. It’s hard not to be embarassed to show a new person your lady bits but just keep in mind that they do the same service all day long and have seen it all!! They do not remember or talk about you, they are just there to do the best job possible for you! Keep in mind your very first wax will always be the worse. It’s more painful because the hair is so coarse from shaving BUT after waxing your hair it becomes softer, finer, and comes back less and less after each wax and makes for a less painful experience each time. I always try to talk my clients, especially new ones through the entire process. I let them know when I need them to take a deep breath for me and also when I’m waxing an area that will barely hurt at all. We talk about life, love, men, kids, relationships, the whole sha-bang. It’s one of the best parts of my day, getting to know a client and making her feel comfortable with me at the same time. A good waxer will do the same.
After you made it through, pat yourself on the back. You did it! You made it through your very first bikini wax. I promise, you will now be addicted and if you’re in a relationship, your guy or girl will love it. You will never shave again which is one of the biggest No-No’s of waxing. You wax once a month depending on your hair growth and never shave in between because it will be like starting all over again. Exfoliate the entire area 2-3 times a week with a salt or sugar scrub to keep the ingrown hairs away and you will be good to go! Happy Waxing!!
*Thanks, Kara!*
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